scary discovery: shopping is my biggest motivation

  • Went shopping today, and picked up some jeans (easily fit in a size 30 without any wiggling ) comfy lounge pants (size medium), and a shirt (size medium again )

    Unfortunately, what I have discovered:

    - If I fit into a new size, I get super happy and get motivated to continue losing weight
    - If I dont fit into a new size, I'll get grumpy but get motivated to step it up with my weight loss..


    Darned if you do, darned if you dont!! My poor wallet
  • *sigh*

    i wish i could use clothes shopping as a motivator. i LOVE shopping for my littlest but when it comes to shopping for myself, if it's not canadian tire or a geek shop, i'd rather lick razor blades, lol.

    my problem is that if i think it looks good or if i love it, *****guaranteed***** it's hopelessly tacky or skanky or something. i seem to be mired in the 80s but at least i never got into acid-wash.
  • Haha! It sounds like fun motivation though. But yeh, if you go shopping at every size-change it could be expensive!

    threenorns: you crack me up constantly. LOL

    I hate shopping. As in. H.A.T.E. If I can run into a store pick some stuff and run out I do it once a year. For now I am postphoning all shopping activity till I am at goal-weight. Which has me walking around in baggy stuff. But the cool thing is people don't notice the weightloss as much either. So once I go for proper clothes it's gonna be dramatic!

    And yes, I am sort of the dramatic type.
  • I love shopping. I love any kind of shopping from thrift stores to high-end stores. In fact, i have a Goodwill that is about a 10 minute walk from my apartment. Shopping is a HUGE motivator for me, I love that Im on my way to wearing clothes I havent worn in a long time. I do it with more than clothes too. I do it with makeup, hair accessories, and Jewelry. I was online tonight looking for a new ring. I wear a cheap metal ring on my thumb and its about falling off! In a few more pounds im certain it will be down the drain and then i get to buy a new one. WOOHOO!
  • in that case, why not go for the gold?

    if you think your finger will shrink some more, get a gold band and have a custom pattern engraved on it, one that will show every time you need to size the ring down.

    another idea would be a pendant where, for every goal you meet, you can have the jeweller add a stone - one of those family rings or family pendants would work nicely, like this one: https://www.alexandersjewellery.com/...6_3w-293ST.jpg
  • Quote: Haha! It sounds like fun motivation though. But yeh, if you go shopping at every size-change it could be expensive!

    threenorns: you crack me up constantly. LOL

    I hate shopping. As in. H.A.T.E. If I can run into a store pick some stuff and run out I do it once a year. For now I am postphoning all shopping activity till I am at goal-weight. Which has me walking around in baggy stuff. But the cool thing is people don't notice the weightloss as much either. So once I go for proper clothes it's gonna be dramatic!

    And yes, I am sort of the dramatic type.
    ME TOO. I'm gonna get my brows done too at some pricey place for even more of an oo-la-la effect!
  • i have a love/hate with shopping. sometimes i'll be in a groove and find great stuff, sometimes nothing will fit me right and i'll almost be in tears. i hate the new styles today with the wide, cropped tops. they are everywhere. they look good on no one (not even the model in my opinion).

    i like to pop into thrift stores. you can find things that are sometimes brand new. best part of all, if you shrink out of them..you didn't spend that much.
  • Whatever works. It's cool you find something that motivates you regardless of outcome.
  • oh!!!!! i just had the most awesome idea!!!!!

    what about a ring that has a pattern on it that changes slightly every time it has to be sized down and when you've reached goal size, the pattern has become something like a flower? something like a ... i dunno, something tendrily and vine-y with fronds top and bottom that, once the top and bottom meet, become the petals of a flower?
  • Quote: Went shopping today, and picked up some jeans (easily fit in a size 30 without any wiggling ) comfy lounge pants (size medium), and a shirt (size medium again )

    Unfortunately, what I have discovered:

    - If I fit into a new size, I get super happy and get motivated to continue losing weight
    - If I dont fit into a new size, I'll get grumpy but get motivated to step it up with my weight loss..


    Darned if you do, darned if you dont!! My poor wallet
    I find that if I'm having one of those periods where I ask myself "why am I working so hard?" going shopping makes me realize why I stick to it! I did this recently and found that I'm (depending on brand and cut) wearing a size 2 pant now. After that I had NO desire for that food I had been arguing with myself about!