ItsMyTurn OK, I didn't even check between mattresses! I'd like to say both my kids are old enough to know what gets my goat, but they don't or they don't care...

This weekend is supposed to be focusing on the things that have been driving me crazy...son's cans, daughter living in my living room. So if I want it to change, I have to be the one to change it as they don't feel my frustration and I stuff it down in fear of hurting their feelings or worse. LOL, always them ahead of me, therapist said "NO MORE" so I am making steps to make them think of me, even if it's me whose getting them moving

With my son, he is a hoarder and I'm not sure what to do as a parent about that, but help him to learn 'it's okay, to throw that out'. Last night I kept asking do you need this? He'd say...no, but. Then stop himself. I'd ask but what? He'd shrug. He won't tell me what it is, but it keeps him from tossing it. SO I say, well I think it's trash and as mom, I say toss it. I swear most of it was literal garbage..old broken toys or cookie tins. No, but...I wanted to hear what but was.
DD is off with DH to get red paint for room. DH is iffy on red, but I pointed out our house has a purple room, dark green stairwell, and orange kitchen and soon a blue living room and red foyer...what's another red room? He shrugged, can a man win against two women? Not in this house
