Note--Sorry if this posts multiple times--this is my first post and I can't tell if it is going through!!!
Hello Jinxy! I used to have a lot of "food phobias." Most of them had to do with fruit. I figured out that I wouldn't eat most fruits and many veggies because, to be honest, my parents were poor and kind of mentally ill so they bought cheap, not-fresh produce on sale and then didn't keep the kitchen clear of food waste in any kind of normal fashion. I have no idea if your veggie aversions have to do with some early experience you may not remember, but --mine really did. Does anything come to mind?
Anyway, the way I got over my phobias was to bravely eat food prepared by others that had a small amount of the dreaded ingredient. For example, I couldn't eat raw tomatoes, but when I felt up the challenge and I was offered a salad, I would wrap a tiny bit of tomato up in a piece of lettuce and chew gingerly. It took about ten years for me to go from eating only starchy veggies, cooking greens, and grapefruit to including raw tomatoes, berries, cooked apples, all citrus, mangoes, and...I don't remember what-all. That includes getting over aversions to taste, texture, smell, appearance, and/or how long they stay fresh.
Anyway, this apporach takes time, but I was never successful forcing myself to eat anything. Often I would just take a bite or two of the food then pick the rest out, but now I ADORE veggies.
Another idea--seasonings can really improve the flavor of dishes with lots of veggies. If you don't use a lot of herbs and spices now, you could try experimenting.
