Jules, don't let a few remarks get you down. It is hard to show someone the whole picture without getting explicit, so therefore they don't have much to go on when giving their thoughts. And unfortunately some don't even read the post properly.
Let it roll off your back and continue here...I love you and send ((hugs))
I apologize as I've obviously hurt you. That wasn't my intention at all, I was just commenting on what you had written, although I obviously don't know the entire back story. Please ignore my comments. I think perhaps you were asking more for confirmation of what you were already thinking, rather than the question itself that you finished your post with. I'm sorry that I have made you feel this way. Please feel free to consult any local domestic violence organization and speak with someone who can hear more and assist you with any possible DV situation your son may be in.