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Originally Posted by berryblondeboys
I'm feeling pretty bad about a few NSVs recently. My MIL only knows how to show 'love' through buying things for people. I hate that as I'm not like that, but she insists.
Well, last year for my anniversary she wanted to get me something. I asked her to get my wedding band resized as I hadn't been able to wear it for 15 years (or more). Well, guess what, now I can't wear it or it will fall off.
For my birthday/Christmas she got me a pair of really nice shoes - that I love. And guess what - the flop around on my feet. They are more too wide than too long, but the result is the same, unless I wear heavy socks, I can't wear them. I'm not sure I'll share with her I can't wear those unless dead of winter either... Oops! They were $75 shoes (on sale)... so not extremely expensive like some designer shoes, but they were expensive enough to feel bad about not being able to wear them!
Berryblondeboys, I can totally understand why you would be feeling bad about these things but your health, happiness and fitness is much more important and I'm positive your MIL would agree that your health is what important, not Christmas gifts! Plus, if she does love buying you stuff so much now she can help you get your ring resized again or get you some new duds!
