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Originally Posted by christine123
Thank you so very much for this. I am experiencing some of the same feelings tied to the weight loss as you described. I am feeling better that someone else was able to articulate it. This is definitely part of the emotional piece. No one has noticed mine either and I'm down from a 10 to a loose 6. I am trying to tell myself that even though losing weight won't solve certain struggles, I'd rather be thin and struggling, than fat and struggling. Because either way, I am still struggling.
You may be wrong. It could be the other way around.
People might NOTICE, but for what reason would they feel inclined to comment? If they're overweight as well it might be jealousy and if they are jealous, why would they want to make YOU, of all people, feel better? I'm sure they notice.
Who cares if anyone notices that you're down a few sizes? Who CARES?
You may want to reevaluate why you want to lose weight. If it's only for the looks and comments, maybe something's wrong. Personally, I've lost weight to be healthy and the looks are an added bonus.
