What do you do when you have friends or family members that are into extreme or unhealthy diet plans?
A very good friend of mine at work and several other colleagues subscribe to an extreme dieting plan (a plan that shall not be named-haha). Luckily, my friend and I have the kind of rapport that I was able to tell her about my concerns with the plan the first time she did it- I stated my piece, we chatted about it and then I wanted to leave it alone. I basically told her I didn't approve, but that I would be happy for her success. She did it last year, lost a bunch of weight and then gained about half of it back once she stopped for the summer- we're teachers.
Now she's getting ready for another round of the plan. While I want to support her, I don't feel like I want to talk about the method because I'm so categorically opposed to it. Last year, I would casually ask her how things were going without diving into specifics...that seemed to work out well. I'll probably do the same.
She is an adult and has to make her choices, and I know I'm not going to make her change her mind. It's not my place. I love her dearly, and I want her to feel supported. Does anyone have any experience with this?