You can
definitely do it, it's hard, it takes a lot of work and you have to commit to it completely - but it can be done. Professional help with a therapist/guidance counselor is a fantastic idea - I went through therapy myself and without it, I'd never be where I am today... exercising, eating well, sleeping well and actually enjoying it, lol. I'm doing something totally for myself, completely selfish and it's wonderful!
Good luck!
