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Originally Posted by TransformingToni
There is absolutely NO need to pay for this.
As overpriced as I personally believe WW is, I disagree. There can be a need and a benefit to what WW offers. Some people need (or just want and that's ok too) the weekly in-person support. If you're one of those people there's absolutely no shame in paying for a service you find beneficial.
What you have to make sure of, is that you're getting a benefit and that the cost is worth it to you.
If TOPS (taking off pounds sensibly) were not available in my area, I would consider Weight Watchers if I could fit it in the budget. Not because I need someone telling me what to eat, but because I do best when I have in-person support and the accountability of an in-person weigh-in.
I've known people in WW who don't follow the WW plan - they calorie count or follow non-WW food plans, but go to WW for the weekly accountability.
For those people, the cost is worth the benefit of support.
Support is often undervalued in weight loss. Often there's social pressure not only to "do it on your own," but to keep it secret as well. Exercise in secret. Diet in secret. Live in secret, until you're an "acceptable" weight.
Some people may get enough support on this website alone. Others (definitely I'm one of them) need in-person support.
There's one woman in my TOPS group who is also a WW member. For her, one in-person meeting a week isn't enough support. So she pays not only WW fees, she also pays TOPS fees (although a year in TOPS is cheaper than a month in WW), for the benefit of two meetings a week.
I've considered joining or even creating a second weight loss group in order to have two meetings/weigh-ins a week. I don't want to pay WW prices, and while TOPS allows you to join other weight loss groups, it doesn't allow you to be a member of more than one TOPS group (you can attend other groups' meetings, but no double weigh-ins. And all the TOPS groups in my area meet on Monday or Tuesday. Ideally I'd want a meeting on Friday or Saturday).
You can find or create free support systems, but just as in every other aspect of life, the cheapest or free solution isn't always the most practical, and it's never entirely free. I could buy a cow, and get "free" milk, but it's not really free because I'd have to buy and take care of the cow.
If you need support, paying for it is often "cheaper" in the long run than creating it yourself from scratch.
The important part is getting value for what you pay for, and knowing where the value lies. For me, in-person support and the weigh-in in front of people I like and respect is pricelessly valuable. I just need to find a way to get another mid-week "fix".
As much as I value the support I get here, it's the in-person groups that keep me motivated. Ultimately I know that no one here at 3FC can see my progress. Unfortunately it takes the pressure off, and makes it easier to procrastinate.
There's no shame in needing and wanting in-person support - or for paying for it if you have to.