compliments

  • Well I'm still really fat,just a tad above 260, but the compliments are starting to roll in. There were three today; one from the lady who delivers the newspaper, two from co-workers.

    My response is always, thanks , but I don't look good, I just look good for me

    I'm glad it shows, but I've got a lot of work to do. (The goal below is a mini-goal it's just too mind boggling to think how much I have to loose. After I drop 100 lbs, I could still drop 100 more)
  • WHAT?! Man, read what you just wrote. Are you being humble or do you really not give yourself credit for being amazing?

    How tall are you? 260 for a guy is, IMO, not 100 lbs over weight. In fact, some of my boyfriend's clients (he's a personal trainer) are working with him to get to 200 lbs coz they can't get out of the 180's on their own. Of course I'm talking weight training, but I just want to point out that a 160 lb man is too light, IMO. You have done an unbelievable job. Don't belittle it.
  • Quote: WHAT?! Man, read what you just wrote. Are you being humble or do you really not give yourself credit for being amazing?

    How tall are you? 260 for a guy is, IMO, not 100 lbs over weight. In fact, some of my boyfriend's clients (he's a personal trainer) are working with him to get to 200 lbs coz they can't get out of the 180's on their own. Of course I'm talking weight training, but I just want to point out that a 160 lb man is too light, IMO. You have done an unbelievable job. Don't belittle it.

    I have to agree somewhat dependent on body composition, i'm 5'10 and 223 right now and people are telling me i look skinny, or i should just stay where i am, they can't see in the mirror though and clothing can be forgiving, not to mention i'm still clinically obese. ( No i don't put a lot of faith in this generic measurement - still... )

    I have a powerful and stocky build and truthfully could be happy the way i am right now, but i will not rest until i hit that 195 marker, i will probably still have a little extra fat and most assuredly some loose skin even at that, if i was to weigh 160 i would be considered sickly and anemic though.
  • We're all our own worst critics.

    It is important to aknowledge your success thus far even if you are far from finished. Thus, when given a compliment, smile and say thank you.

    It sounds cheesy but you've got to love yourself.

    Great job on your weight loss thus far!!