I dunno if my thing will help your process. But here goes.
I was getting annoyed because at my weight, my AMR was guesstimated at 2900, so 2300 was a -600 drop and should have given me the -1 lbs a week but it wasn't. It was on the paper food log, but not in real life. I wasn't being crazy and I had data for a YEAR.
But I have endoc stuff like hypothyroid and PCOS. And I complained at my endoc and together we looked at the food log. So since I was maintaining at 2300, call that the AMR then and -500 calories from THERE for 1800. Now my food log is matching my reality and I'm getting the nice little -1 lbs a week I wanted. I probably should have complained sooner than sticking it for a year, but hey, I was thorough! Nobody could tell me I wasn't giving it the time to work or not keeping a food log diligently!
I am 5'8". Weight in the ticker.
My goal is to earn a PALA, and that means 5x a week, 30 min at a pop. Sometimes it is longer like and hour because I play Wii "walk It out" with DH at night. But I burn an average of 400 calories per hour this way according to my HRM.
http://www.presidentschallenge.org/
I'm using it just to get back into the swing of regular exercise, but later I'd like to get back to harder fitness challenges -- jogging, lifting, etc. I made the mistake of trying to be where I used to be instead of spending some time working my way back to being a 4x a week hard jogger.
I've joined a gym but my pattern there is not as regular yet. I'm trying to learn the gym scene there and the least crowded times to go and all that. That will be my next step -- earn a PALA from the gym rather than from my living room.
At your height, weight and energy burn, assuming you don't have endoc issues throwing a monkey wrench in there... I think you could afford to eat more or change the exercise intensity and try those tweaks and see how it is.
But the scale is moving... what's "slow" to you? Maybe all is fine and it's just a question of patience?
GL!
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