I had that same problem--eating a big meal and still wanting more. What I didn't realize is that the foods I was eating made me want more, and not just out of a psychological desire for food. Wild blood sugar swings created a
physiological desire to eat even though I'd just finished a huge meal forty minutes earlier.
I feel less hungry now on 1500 calories a day than I did on most of the days during which I ate over 2500 calories. I kid you not. Here's what works for me and why. It may not be your ticket to mostly crave-free days, but it might help.
- I never eat carbs by themselves because without protein, carbs don't satiate me. An apple will make me ravenous; an apple and a slice of cheese will fix me up until my next meal.
- I eat every few hours, including having a decent breakfast. There was a time that I'd have one meal a day; I was starved by the time I ate, so that one meal would be a two-hour-long graze during which I'd consume 2000+ calories (a lot for me because I'm old and short

).
- I spend way more time in the kitchen. Few restaurants can match the low-calorie options we cook, and NO frozen dinner can match the taste of home cooking. It's hard to crave stuff that doesn't fit into my calorie budget when the fridge is full to bursting with stuff that does.
- I learned that a little discomfort isn't the same as deprivation. I'm okay with driving by a bakery and fleetingly thinking "Oh, cake, sweet cake, I miss you!" I'm
not okay with actual hunger, with wasting time fantasizing about food, or with counting the minutes until my next meal-time. If I see those things happening, I need to re-think my plan in some way. If I just want a Twinkie? Nah, then I just tell myself to "sack up," metaphorically speaking.
- I gave it some time. This was tougher in November than it is now. Stuff I really missed a couple of months ago no longer moves me much.
Sorry to write such a lengthy manifesto, but...well, I just really get how wretched cravings can be and how maddening it can feel to have them nagging at you. Hope my over-long post was helpful.
