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Originally Posted by time2lose
There was a time when I would have told you that I don't have a problem with sweets but I was lying to myself. I am addicted to sugar. After a couple of weeks completely off of sugar, the cravings get much better and is even gone at times. After 4 or so weeks off of sugar, it becomes much easier to resist.
"Healthier" versions of sweets just keep the cravings alive. I have to go cold turkey. I won't lie about it; it is hard. I let myself have sweets during Christmas, and now I am paying for it. I am in my withdrawal stage now and, at times, think that I just can't do this. But I know that I can because I have done it before.
Do whatever you have to do to avoid the sugar. Put it in the garbage disposal if you have to. Repeat my mantra, "You can do this and it will get easier!"
PS. Fruits do not cause cravings for me. So I load up on fruit during my withdrawal.
Every sentence of this is me, exactly. I used to not even think I was much of a sweets person! hahaha I would lump empty/white carbs right in with the sweets, as I have discovered that all of that sends my cravings through the roof now that I've done a decent detox from them. I still do eat carbs, but I try to opt for the whole grain route, and I ALWAYS try to pair them with a protein.
The other day I took a bite of my daughter's leftover bagel, and I felt like I just smoked a hit of crack. Instantly I was wondering if I could get away with eating the rest, then moving on to whatever other carbs I could find. I have begun to really learn that one bite, one piece, whatever, is NOT going to "satisfy the craving" for me, it's going to bring on more.
At work over the holidays, there was a plate of cookies in front of me that were pretty outstanding-looking. I thought to myself, what will happen if I eat one of those? Am I going to feel satisfied with it and think to myself "wow, so glad I ate that cookie - it really hit the spot and I'm over the temptation!", or was going to feel like "OMG, MUST EAT MORE, MUST EAT THE WHOLE PLATE!" Decided the latter was more likely and just didn't think it was worth it to go down that road.
I did splurge on a few sweet treats over the holidays, but I KNEW that doing so was going to mean a few good days of eating before the cravings stopped once again and I had my "new normal" appetite back. I decided it was worth it, and sure enough suffered a few days of cravings once I was done. I was able to reign it in and get back to business, and it was worth it. But it's not something I intend to flirt with often, I just don't trust myself enough to always get the mindset needed to stick it out through the cravings. But it does help me to "never say never" to sweets. It's gotta be REALLY, REALLY worth it, though.
Sorry so much rambling!