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Originally Posted by mybostons
Is there any one else that is in a similar boat or has been there and can offer advise/suggestions on how to stay motivated to lose weight when justing getting through the day is a struggle?
When I started, I had applied for disability because of fibromyalgia, arthritis, copd/asthma, and an assortment of other health problems - one potentially life threatening. (I have an autoimmune disease attacking my joints, respiratory system, and skin. Initially it was diagnosed as a very fast-moving type that was fatal without aggressive treatment). Turns out that whatever I have is much slower moving, and apparently is now in remission (as long as I eat relatively low-carb. If I eat high grain/sugar/carb I start to see symptoms reappear).
I couldn't even take a shower standing up, and could barely shampoo my hair even once (I used a shamppoo/conditioner combination becaused I didn't have the strenght to rinse/repeat) and I was sleeping up to 20 hours a day (unconscious sleeping, not resting in bed). I needed a cane to walk even short distances, and I had to use an electric cart in a large store (mostly I just avoided shopping at all, because just getting to the carts was a drain - not to mention the embarassment of using one).
It's been a slow crawl out of the hole I'd dug for myself. Mostly just trying to do just a little bit more than I did the day before. My first "exercise" was washing dishes (in a chair) during a commercial. Then during the whole commercial break and I started standing up part of the time.
I don't know if all of that meant I had a harder time than most people, or whether it was easier for me, because I had nowhere to go but up, all I can say is that I couldn't compare myself to "everybody else" or even healthier versions of my past self, because it made me feel like giving ujp.
Having energy for exercise is a dilemma. Moderate exercise is crucial for fibromyalgia. It's a dilemma that exercise decreases the fatigue of fibro, but the fatigue makes it extremely difficult to exercise. For me, exercising many, many times in tiny, tiny increments was the key to doing it. Even on a bad day, I could do 1 minute of gentle exercise several times a day. I did what I could and didn't dwell on the fact that the amount I could do was laughable.
Warm water exercise is awesome. Even fairly strenuous exercise was relaxing and energizing rather than draining (getting dressed and undressed was another matter). I had to buy a two piece bathing suit, because I couldn't shimmy into a swim dress (well shimmying in was bad, but shimmying out was the real struggle). Putting on a bra after swimming was impossible (until I bought a front close bra), so I'd wear my swim suit under a roomy t-shirt or denim dress (baggy enough to somewhat hide the fact that I wasn't wearing a bra on the way out).
Every little bit helps. You really have to believe that, especially when the weight loss is slow. It's taken me the last six years to lose 88 lbs (68 of it in the last three years).
One thing that I do find motivating about my experience. Unlike most people who experience their quickest weight loss in the beginning, my weight loss is actually snowballing. The healthier I am getting, the more I can do, and the more I lose. I'm actually losing much faster than when I started (it's still slow by most people's standards, but it does give me hope that I can lose more as I get healthier).