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Originally Posted by milliondollarbbw
For me, seeing some type of a reduction is a good boost to keep me motivated and energized to stick with the plan, ya know? If I don't see a change for a long while, then I get unmotivated.
If you don't change that about you, you'll never lose all of the weight you want to, because weight loss by healthy means always slows down. Even rapid weight loss by incredibly unhealthy means like crash dieting, eventually slows down. There is no way to prevent long periods of slow weight loss - not even with the unhealthy gimmicks.
I was on strong, prescription amphetemines as a teenager (when my metabolism was at it's absolute peak), and I lost 70 of the 75 lbs my doctor said I needed to lose - and the weight still slowed down to a snails pace (even on the pills).
When I got to within 5 lbs of my goal, my doctor decided to tell me I needed to lose another 15 lbs. I think he thought my weight loss had slowed down because I got lazy - but I was trying as hard as I could (still taking the amphetamines even though they weren't working very well for appetitie control, I was afraid to stop taking them). I blew a gasket when I was told I needed 15 more pounds to lose instead of 5. I told myself there was absolutely no way I could handle such a long, slow process. I "needed" instant gratification of faster weight loss - and since that wasn't possible - the only remaining option is giving up (after all, what I "needed" wasn't available to me).
My whole life I've been chasing the crash diet "high." It doesn't work in the long run. If you "need" the motivation of rapid weight loss, you're doomed to temporary weight loss, because weight loss always slows down.
And of course, you always tell yourself "this time will be different," "I only need a jump start, after a few pounds my motivation will be strong enough to go back to a healthy (slow) diet." But it never works out that way - you ALWAYS need the "quick fix" and you'll always give up when the weight loss becomes "demotivating."
You have to find a way to be motivated, even when the weight loss is slow, because it's going to get slow.
If you somehow miraculously make it to goal weight - it's going to be just as hard to stay motivated, if you need the constant reinforcement of losing - because with maintenance there never is any change on the scale to pat yourself on the back with.
I know you don't want to believe me, and I'm not sure why I'm wasting my breath, but I would so love to prevent at least one person from having to learn the "hardway," the way I did. Maybe it won't be you, but maybe it will be someone reading this thread. I sure hope so.