So, my bf is On Plan as well, he sparks but lately he's been kind of doing a bad job of it, he's been eating too much at work (he is a cook) and he hasn't been exercising. He TOLD ME to help keep him on track.
So, I suggested taking some frozen stuff to work. (he says he doesn't have time so to cook himself healthy food there so I thought it was a good compromise, I Cook in bulk sometimes and freeze, plus he has light freezer meals).
I have been telling him to kinect.
Been telling him to spark better.
He tells me today to 'stop telling him what to do.'
WHAT!???!!??
He ASKED FOR THIS and now he's being resentful and it's really making me mad.
I think I might just tell him he's on his own. I have enough to worry about with myself. I can lead by example but I Think that is all I can do anymore. I just can't be responsible for him so he can be a jerk to me because he's resistant and unmotivated.