The best answer you're going to get is to strength train.

What got me started was reading here that when you lose weight as much as 40% of what's lost could be muscle. I wanted to lose FAT, not muscle. The benefit is that you can wear a tiny size at a larger weight. The drawback is the scale may move slower. This is the time to pull out the tape measurer.
I can tell you at the start of my journey women my height and weight were wearing smaller sizes than I was. I couldn't figure it out. Now, after lifting all this time, women my height and weight report wearing larger sizes. I've gone from one end of the spectrum to the other. I don't mind weighing so much because no one but me knows my number...well, and all of you.
