New here, definitely not new to diets! i really want to make it work this time and be close to my goal by the time my husband returns from his current deployment (really want to wow him). I don't have a lot of support so hopefully no one will mind if i lean on a few virtual shoulders

Welcome, glad to have you join us. Great avatar. I suggest you look for a Support Group or Challenge to join; a small group of friends to help keep you motivated, find one that inspires you or fits your needs, and just post to join.

Hi and welcome to 3FC.

Good luck with your goals.

Hugs
Michelle

to 3FC!
Lots of support, advice & encouragement here
Hugs and support on your weight lose journey

Welcome to 3FC, we are glad you are here!