Beverlyjoy~ very happy you have gotten some answers. Don't beat yourself up just one day at a time, it's what I try to tell myself...lol
mj5~ family can suck the life out of you, mine does , but ya love them anyway...lol.
TxMary2 ~ try to avoid the scale, when I obsess about it not moving I defeat myself. The whole mind game is heck on the nerves.
I've been the stress queen and it shows...lol. I have not stepped on the scale this week at all. I start everyday well, then pack veggies and fruits for my lunch at work then usually blow it when I get home.
I'm having financial issues because I helped 2 of my kids (22 & 20 yrs old) out and my husband (we have separated almost a year) and nobody ever seems to be in the position to want to pay me back on their loan(s).
I need to learn to say no, so I have only myself to blame

. But part of me is so angry because if they had taken the advice I gave months ago I wouldn't have been put in the position to help as much as I have.
I need to say no and they all need to learn to handle their own issues.
Today I aim to do better for myself ....