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Originally Posted by Petclerk
Awww Kelsey, I can really feel for you... I'm so dreading the day that my son leaves me. Hang in there, at least you know he's healthy & happy!
You're right. He is happy and healthy. I do have that to be thankful. I'm sure there are people who wish their sons were able to go away to college and for one reason or another they won't, so I will think about how lucky I am! Thanks!
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Originally Posted by Aunt Sheshie
I really know how you feel... I was a single mom, with one child, & when he left for college, I really had an empty nest!.. I don't know what resources you have in your area, for volunteering, for advanced education, for clubs & organizations... I know this isn't an option for everybody, but let me tell you what I did... I packed up & moved 200 miles south & went back to college myself... my son & I graduated a week apart... he was at Texas A&M & I was at Texas Tech... it was wonderful having college in common with him, even if we were in different schools...
Go ahead, let yourself go through the emotions of loss... we'll be here anytime you need us...
lots of hugs
I would love that! However, I have a great husband, a pretty good job, 2 1/2 acres of property to care for, my home, daughters (both 5 min away), and of course my sunshine, Alyssa, my granddaughter! So moving isn't an option. However, I may go back to school soon. Thanks for the encouragement. and WAY TO GO on getting YOUR DEGREE(s)!
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Originally Posted by Linden
My heart aches with you. I went through this in pre-email days. My husband was dying, and everyone I know was saying something like "You'd let your only child [sixteen] go so far away to the big city [New York]?" ... But I'm going to go out on a limb and say I'll bet you'll become even closer to each other. I hope this helps.
I'm sure you're right, Linny. I love talking to him, and I haven't mad at him for staying up all night and sleeping all day since he left! LOL
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Originally Posted by Coastalcrafter
...- YOU WILL CRY-YOU WILL FEEL BLUE...IT'S NORMAL ! YOU LOVE YOUR FAMILY AND LIVED FOR THEM, THAT WAS YOUR VOCATION! ( IT WAS MINE) WE ARE HERE HONEY TO LIFT YOU UP ANYTIME..,,, I HAVE NO IDEA....BUT I GONNA FIND OUT! WITH MY STRONG FAITH AND LOVING PERSONALITY, WHAT A JOURNEY THAT LIES AHEAD OF ME!!!!..
You're right! We WILL find ourselves. Who are we without the "mom" title??? I can't wait myself! I bet I'm fun. LOL
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Originally Posted by Linden
I originally mis-posted this as a tack-on to my weigh-in today. Sorry. I'd really like some advise, if you have any.
Since the end of week 2 I have officially lost 9 pounds in eight weeks, although I have gone up and down, up and down. Am on my third set of blood work which = insulin resistance and hormone imbalance but no solution offered...
Help?
Linny,
My friend, my sweet sweet friend. You and I are both slow losers. It is most frustrating. I've had a few good weeks here and there, but as you know, my loss is much slower than most peoples. I've kept a spreadsheet since I started, and my average is 2.3, that's not good. However, it's better then gaining which is what I was doing before IP. That being said, yesterday was the first time I REALLY had a cheat (other then the planned week of my cruise - I always knew that was off limits, as that was planned before IP).
If you've never gone into ketosis, then perhaps you're not burning fat, you're just on a really restrictive diet? Therefore you won't lose as quickly?!? I'm not of the "researchers" on the board, but maybe one of them can answer this question.
Not every plan is for every person. I feel 48.5 lbs is proof that it works for me, but when I started and they told me how much I SHOULD lose, I was supposed to be between 75 - 85 lbs by now, and planning a night out with my husband for his birthday September 1st. Here I am with over 35 lbs still to lose. That is discouraging. Every month when I turn the page of the calendar I see my original mini goals - WOW was I off! sigh. So I get it... you do what you're supposed to do, so you expect an A+ or at least an A, so when you get a D and it means you're hanging in there, not failing, it sucks.
Good luck to you on your decision. I have no advice for you. I struggle way too much with it myself. I watch people around me go on and pass me and go off the diet, and I'm still on phase 1 after more than 5 months.
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One small little tiny request for the people who create the DAILY CHAT, could you pretty please put the DAY of the week, Like "Weekend 8/21/10 - 8/22/10" or "Monday 8/23/10" this would help me when I log in and haven't yet had my coffee and I think I'm on the correct day only to find that my LCB has taken over and my coffee hasn't quite kicked in yet! LOL

No biggie, and I may be the only screwball here that gets confused!
Originally posted by Ruth (our moderator) last weekend:
By the way, I started up a new chat thread because the usual thread is way too long and very difficult to navigate as well as very intimidating for newbies. Let's try a weekend and then maybe a daily thread which should make things less confusing. This seems to work well in other large sub-Forums like South Beach.