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Originally posted by showgirlaz
That is so nice of you to help them out. I know it really means a lot. My grandparents are 94 and since my mom passed away, my sister and I take care of them in that way. They really appreciate having someone to hear what the doctor says and to remind them what they wanted to say.
Expect the best. Look for the positive. I may be wrong but, I think when your parents see you they will see a changed person and, given their love and concern for your health and well being, they will be happy/supportive. Of course they may have their own opinions and concerns. All people question what is different. The nice thing is you are on phase 2. You get 2 normal meals a day. AND, they should be appreciative of good simple food... that is what you get. Take some bars or snack style restricted foods if you eat them. Take some hard boiled eggs, or sliced cooked chicken breast, take some cut up veggies. These will help with snacks if you need to and are driving. Remember to keep plenty of water handy, and drink more, especially if you are eating out often and at buffets (too much sodium). Keep plenty of protein drinks available. Your parents are familiar with things like boost so, supplemental nutrition is not unfamiliar territory.
This reminds me of an old story about a town up ahead.
"Once, a man pulled up into a gas station in the country, and asked the gas station attendant, "What are the people like in the next town up ahead?" The attendant said, "What were the people like in the town you just came from?" "Awful people," the man responded. "Rude, cold, hostile, abrupt, unfriendly. They wouldn't give me the time of day." "Well," said the attendant, "I'm sorry to say it, but you're going to find exactly the same sort of people in the next town up ahead." A bit later, another driver pulled in, heading in the same direction as the
first. "What are the people like in the next town up ahead?" the second man asked. The attendant said, "What were the people like in the town you just came from?" "Wonderful people," the second man responded. "Friendly, warm, helpful, patient, kind. They went out of their way to help a stranger." "Well," said the attendant, "I'm happy to tell you that you're going to find exactly the same kind of people in the next town up ahead." ."
I have always taken that story as a reminder that sometimes what we get in life is what we reflect and/or expect. If you expect your family to be supportive, maybe, they will be.
Good luck on the trip! We will miss you!
Thanks for your wise & encouraging words,
Carla... & I'll try to remember your story about the town up ahead... I'm feeling pretty good about being able to stick to Phase 2 protocol the whole trip... making final preparations today & will leave early tomorrow morning... I'll really miss all of y'all, you've been my soulmates & a great inspiration for the past two & a half months... but I'll be back, hopefully by next Saturday!..
I had a good NSV yesterday while deciding what clothes to take... the size 14 pants that were my very 1st IP NSV are now loose!.. I'm still taking them in case I need long pants, but I'll try to live in shorts as much as possible... always hot & sticky in Oklahoma City this time of year...
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