I know exactly how you feel.
I resisted shopping for a long time. I wore baggy clothes during the late winter and belted my pants. It got to the point where I could take off my pants without undoing the belt, which was at the last hole. Then I went shopping.
Part of the frustration with shopping is I think that I am bigger than I am. It never occurred to me to try on smaller sizes b/c I never thought I could wear them. So I'd buy something that was already a little loose & then too weeks later, I'd be swimming in them.
Now, I try on a size I think I am and bring a smaller size in the dressing room. There is vanity sizing at the stores I shop (Old Navy, Express, Gap), so I am wearing numbers that are smaller than my real size. Also, these cheaper clothes have stretchy fabrics so they can go up a whole size simply by wearing them once. I now have the courage to buy something a little tight in the store.
I suggest that people do thrift shopping & hand me downs as a way of building their wardrobe. My favorite purchase is a $4 Express dress that looks fantastic and is good for work and for a dressy night out. What nice about thrift stores is they often raise money for good causes. So you are giving and getting at the same time.
A couple of weeks ago, I did something I've never done before. I donated my beautiful, but too big clothes to my thrift store. I remember having an internal debate about keeping the clothes. What if I gain the weight back and I'll have nothing to wear?
And then I decided that I am NOT gaining the weight back. That is not an option. So I donated the clothes.
