oh my goodness Carla - I am so terribly sorry to hear about your sister and mum. My heart goes out to you. I think tattoos are an amazing way to pay tribute to loved ones.
My Ohana tattoo is for my dog who passed away because:
I had a pug for 15 years and he was getting so old. My husband was worried that my dog was going to pass away while he was out of town and I would be sad and alone so he got me a Black Lab puppy to join our family so I wouldn't be alone if Pugsley passed away.
We used to go on these long walks as a family and Lola (the lab) and Dustin would get so far ahead of us and when she would notice that Pugsley and I were dragging far behind she would plunk her butt down and wouldn't budge until we caught up.
We always said it was "ohana" because ohana means family, and family means no one gets left behind or forgotten
So once Pugsley passed away I got that tattoo so he would never be left behind.
...I know it's not nearly as significant as a tribute to your mum and sister, but it is significant none the less
The tattoo I'm going to get going forward is for my little guy, who had a rough start to his life. They told us to prepare for the worst because he just wasn't going to make it, and for almost 2 weeks we hoped and prayed for him to make it and then he took a turn for the better and never looked back. Those times were the hardest I've ever faced in my life and I think it was God making sure we really wanted to adopt the little guy and to make sure we would stay by him no matter what.
The three little birds in the tattoo are because one night I decided to leave the hospital for the first time in over a week and on the way home my husband and I broke down in tears because everything was so overwhelming, and suddenly out of the blue on a radio station that NEVER plays reggae music, the song Three Little Birds came on and it made us feel better. The next day we went in and that was the day he started doing better...and I think that song was a gift from God letting us know that our prayers had been answered and our little guy was going to make it.