Hi everyone
On January 25th, during her 71st bday party, my mom suffered a massive stroke in front of me and my 10 year old daughter. 20 hours later, I removed her from life support. She was healthy, still working 30 hours a week, still shoveled snow, walked nightly, etc...it was a complete shock. I have always been strong, she raised me that way, and have been dealing with it better than I had ever imagined. Or so I thought. I am not sad, per say, and I am back in life...working, doing things with my daughter, seeing friends....I see mom in my daughter every day and that in itself is a great comfort. Except for the fact that I keep gaining. 11 pounds so far. I tell myself each day that I will begin anew, and by late afternoon I fail. I have the time to exercise daily, and I prepare to, but 5 minutes into it I quit. I find myself meandering around the house, just passing time. I've seen my doc, he told me to not be so hard on myself and that the healing process will take a lot longer, that not enough time has passed for me to expect it to be over. And I understand that. I just don't want to keep gaining, and hate myself in the long run. I am hoping that posting this will help.