Dear Onangelwings,
Thanks for the kind words. Losing weight is a constant struggle. I never thought I would be down 114 lbs. But, 20 months ago, my best friend asked if I would go along with her to Weight Watchers. I cringed at the thought because I had been there..done that..many times. But, I did like the plan, so, I went. After I got there and looked at the book and the new point system, I thought, well, I can still have different things that I like. I thought, "well, I'll give it a week and stick to it". I lost 5 1/2 lbs. the first week. It gave me incentive to stick with it another week. Then, I got my first 10 lb. star. I really liked getting that star and thats what I work for. My 10 lb. stars. I never look at the big picture. I work for 10 lbs. at a time. It doesn't seem so bad. And, I don't care how long it takes me to get to goal. I'll do it when I do it. No special time. I'm going to be on this for the rest of my life, so, it doesn't matter when I get there. Now, my goal is to get there before the magazine article finished next July issue, but, otherwise, I'm in it for the long haul!
Little changes is what got me to where I am. I exchanged things I ate that were bad for me with things I like that aren't bad for me. Low point items. I go thru the store with my points calculator and check everything out. When, I find something I used to eat and want again, I look at the point value. I love Big Macs. But, when I found out that they are 13 points, I was shocked. Thats more than 3/4 of a days allowance of points. It made me see how much more I was eating that I shouldn't have. But, I love eating at Wendy's and their taco salad (without chips) is only 8 points. I love it! Also, their grilled chicken sandwich is only 6. My goal every day is making better choices. You can get all the point values of food in restaurants here on 3FatChicks or a few other sites.
One of my other changes is that I changed my "But, I can'ts" into "I can's or I wills". Being positive helps a great deal. I found since doing the Rosie magazine that most people tell me that they'd lose weight BUT...and they have a million and one excuses. I was that person, too. I had a million excuses. But, not any real good ones. I stopped making excuses for my weight because in the end, it was my choice.
Onangelwings, you have to be proud of yourself and your accomplishments. Boy, do I wish I could sing! I'd make a dog howl if I sang! You have to start caring about yourself and working hard to get the weight off. You deserve it. You are important. Another thing that got me going is thinking about what will happen if I don't do anything. Soon, I wouldn't be able to get out of my sofa! I didn't want to become someone who couldn't work and had to have a hole cut in the wall to get me to the hospital. And, if I would have kept going the way I was, that might have happened. I would think every day that I have to lose the weight and then eat my way thru 2 big macs and french fries. It was time to do something. I could barely get up the steps. Now, I run up and down the steps. I never thought I would do that again. I was getting old before my time.
My other advise to you is to join Weight Watchers instead of doing it on your own. I don't think I would have gotten this far without the support and help of my friends that I met at Weight Watchers. Our little group helps each other out when we need it. When I feel down about gaining a pound, they are there to encourage me. And, vice versa. Attending meetings gives you ideas and help throughout the time you need to lose the weight. And, by the time you get to goal, you will be stronger and more goal oriented. Another reason to join is because you must be accountable to yourself EVERY week when you get on that scale. I know if I wouldn't have had to get on the scale when I thought I did bad, I may not have stuck with it. I may have given up many times. But, I didn't miss many meetings and I was accountable to me! I am committed.
Please, onangelwings, do this for yourself. You deserve it! You'll feel so much better and live a lot longer.
Please feel free to e-mail me if you need any encouragement or advise. I would be more than glad to help in anyway I can. Take care and good luck!
Pat Hatt -
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P.S. Check out Rosie Magazine for more on the Weight Loss Challenge
