i need some serious support...I want to lose weight..but I am not being motivated by anyone to do so...

I am 5'4" 188 lbs...

my bf..loves my squishiness..and doesn't want me to lose my boobs or butt...

my son constantly tells me i'm not fat...

I want somebody to be like.."woman, you are out of shape, and you need to lose weight!"

it will make me mad, but motivate me!

Hi, glad you found this place. I am new here too. I'll bet there are plenty of folks around here to motivate you. I'm 5'2" and I weigh 256. Want some motivation? Don't let yourself get as big as me! It is soooo hard to get it off once it is on. If you like sugar my advice to you would be to get off of it. I stayed off of it for 6 weeks and lost 20 pounds. I've had a little the past 2 days but am getting back on track today. Together we can do it!

Hey rubyladee...thanks for the advice! I know how hard it is to take it off once you put it on...I actually only like sugar in certain things...chocolate, pudding, puff pastries, shortbread fudge cookies.

Other than that, I don't like a lot of sugar! My biggest down fall is chocolate...I have switched to dark...that helps alot.

Hey Jen! I started at 176.6 and I am 5'4"! If you want the reality.. I was out of weight at my weight, so you are too!

But you know! I have seen a lot of people at our height have succeeded in the weight loss!!! WE CAN DO IT TOO!

YAY US!!!!

Welcome to 3fc!! Surf around and settle in! We have subforums based on age, eating plan, exercise and more! I'm glad you're here!!!