ok so thks may be tmi, n its nothing to do with pregnancy But at this point im in so much pain im desperate for help.
ok so the other day I was showering, cleaned out my butt crack n hours later it started killing me, to this point its so bad I woke up balling,i cant walk, sit, lay or really move at all, feels like its tearing , anyone else ever havve this or know possibly what to do

Wow, ouch....I would for sure go check with the doc!

Calmly ... if there is any indication of infection (lumps, pus) you need to see a doctor. If it's just red, apply vaseline or even olive oil. No soap, no body wash, no powder, no perfume.

If it doesn't improve remarkable in a day or two ... go to the doctor anyway.

The worst pain of my life (SERIOUSLY) was from a pilonidal cyst. It was the kind of "makes you want to die" pain that is just no fun. I couldn't do ANYTHING without it hurting.

http://www.emedicinehealth.com/pilon...article_em.htm

Doctor!

I'm not ashamed to admit that I have hemorrhoids, which can be very painful for some people. Perhaps it's something like this? They can be internal or external, so it could be a possibility.

Either way, I think it's time to call your doctor.

I had hemmorhoids when I was prego and it was sooooo painful..OMG. I would head to the doctor if you are still in pain.

I totally agree on the hemmy's! I had them with both kiddo's and yeah, the hurt!! Get some witch hazel (probably near the rubbing achohol in the store) and use that, it cools and soothes. And just be sensitive to the area for awhile. They'll heal right up after birth.

so scared to go to ã doctor, he's gunna wanna look in there, husbands tried n it was the worst pain ever n all he did was touch ã little.