Hi my name is Benita, just call me Nea-Nee (pronounced Ne-Ne) I'm really trying hard to lose weight but it's really hard without motivation. Well right now i stay with my auntie and her two kids. The difference between me and them is that they're all skinny and well i'm not. I don't wanna be pencil thin but i want to be a healthy size for my height. I'm a senior in high school and i just want a change before i go off to college.

Hi Nee-Nee, there is a lot of encouragement and motivation here, and we are all in the same boat.