New to 3FC old to Diet Game

  • This time I want to make a lifestyle change not a Diet. I am going to lose the lbs and get down to 145. I am making myself a priority to me. But I need HELP!!!!!!!!!! I give up on me and I need buddies to help me push and make me work hard like I want to.... any one out there please answer to my call
  • WELCOME TO 3FC & GOOD LUCK!!!I will be your buddy Just message me anytime! As you was~I was tired of not knowing what to do So Here is what I found that is working great and is free and is the only truth on how to lose and keep it off (In my opinion) Hope it helps.It is truly a lifestyle change.
    Go to www.freedieting.com for further help if needed,( i use the left hand side of this site for help with amount of calories to eat)If you already knew the information I am posting my apologies I just figured it out in Novemeber LOL!It's helped me alot.

    Principles
    Weight management may be difficult to achieve, but it certainly is not difficult to understand. When you consume food or drink, you consume calories. Your body burns calories to function, burning significantly more calories when you exercise. If you consume more calories than you burn, you gain weight. If you consume fewer calories than you burn, you lose weight.
    Because your body requires energy simply to stay alive, you burn calories even when you are not exercising. In fact, you burn calories directly in proportion to your body weight. On average, a male burns 11 calories per day per pound of body weight. The average female burns 10 calories per day per pound of body weight. These figures are just averages. Some people will be higher or lower, since everyone's metabolism is a little different. Fitness Record allows you to specify the value which is appropriate for you. If you don't know, it is suggested that you start by using the average value for your gender.
    For example, if John weighs 150 pounds, he burns approximately 150 x 11 = 1,650 calories per day. If he exercises, he will burn additional calories on top of that, depending on the exercise activity. However, if he does not exercise, he must eat 1,650 calories per day, just to maintain his body weight. If he eats more, he will gain weight. If he eats less, he'll lose weight.
    For the purpose of calculating expected weight gain/loss, one pound is 3,500 calories. Each time you consume an extra 3,500 calories more than you burn, you will gain a pound. For example, Jane weighs 130 pounds, never exercises, and eats exactly 1,400 calories every day. Her metabolism is burning 1,300 calories per day, so she are consuming an extra 100 calories each day. If she does this indefinitely, she will gain a pound in 35 days, since 35 * 100 = 3,500.
    Fitness Record uses another term, called Behavioral Weight. The idea is that over the long term, your weight is determined by your behaviors, and is best illustrated by example. Consider Jane above, who eats 1,400 calories per day. After 35 days of this behavior, she will weigh 131, instead of 130. This means her metabolism will burn slightly more calories than before. If she continues to eat 1,400 calories every day, she will continue to gain weight, but at a slightly slower pace. Eventually, she will weigh 140, at which time her metabolism will be burning 1,400 calories every day. At this point, she will stop gaining weight, since she is consuming the same number of calories that she burns. Therefore, by eating 1,400 calories in a day, Jane is behaving like a 140 pound person. Her "behavioral weight" is 140.
    Exercise contributes to your calories burned. If Jane were to exercise, burning an additional 100 calories each day, then her calories burned would be in balance with her calories consumed. She could eat 1,400 calories per day, exercise 100 calories per day, and continue to way 130 indefinitely.
    You may now be asking, "Why can't I just eat low fat foods?" You can eat whatever you want. But, non-fat foods can still have calories. Check the food label to find out if eating the non-fat version of a food is really saving you any calories -- sometimes it's not. Many programs recommend moderating your dietary fat intake, and that is obviously good advice. Eating low-fat foods happens to be an excellent guideline for keeping your calorie intake low. In addition, moderating your dietary fat intake may contribute to your health in other ways. However, it will not alter the mathematics of weight management -- you still have to eat fewer calories than you burn if you want to lose weight.
    The problem with the way the human body works is that calories counting is tedious and difficult. Most weight-loss programs, as well as the so-called "fad diets", focus on other guidelines which are simpler to follow than calorie counting. However, none of these guidelines alter the underlying principles of weight management.
  • Hello,

    I just started my healthier lifestyle 2 days ago. You will do great, just take one day at a time.
  • Hello and Welcome,
    I just thought I would mention what road to weight loss I'm taking, so you can check out all the options and find the right one for you. I am using self hypnosis CD's and have put food where it's suppose to be in my life as opposed to thinking about it constantly and wondering what to eat next. This program is working great for me and the sizes are going down and I feel great.

    There are so many awesome ideas, plans and support here that I'm sure you will find the right one that will work for you and help to make those lifetime changes. Good luck and happy losing!
  • Welcome to 3FC! Many people find success with calorie counting as they change their lifestyles. We have an active calorie counting forum if you are interested in learning more about that approach.

    I'm glad you're here. I agree, it really takes a lifestyle change for many of us!
  • I'm there with you. I just started today. I will make you a deal... we can help each other. I cannot stand looking at myself the way I am and to be honest, I am now VERY worried about my health. So, there is NO WAY that I am going to keep this weight on me. I cant. I want to be happy and I cant be the way I am right now. So, I think that together we can do it

    Lorrie
  • G'day Kmcphee99.. Welcome to the 3 fat chicks on a diet forum.. Great place..and great to have you here with us.. Welcome...
  • i thank everyone for your support and Lorrie7 I understand how you feel about the way I look in a mirror. I want to say dog you look VERY VERY good . you are sexy. and one day soon I will. I agree with everyone that together we can motivate each other to go. I had a couple of days where I was not as good as I would like. but I have been better. I will go from today and not from yesterday. no beating myself up. THANK YOU to everyone