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Originally Posted by saxythang
I need help myself.
I have tried to do MRC for the third time now.
I have a family of husband,2 kids 8&9 a 71 year old mom.
They all love to eat rich food.
I have to cook for them and it makes it hard on me to stay on plan.
I got so upset the other day I threw out my meal plan and pills.
After I cooled off I dug out pills but forgot my meal plan.
But I just can't seem to get it. My neice is doing this with me and she is successful. Lost 15 pounds I have lost 5 and gained it and lost it and gained it.
I need some idea of how you all are doing it so easy like.
I am ready to throw it all in. I am tired of being fat but tired of trying.
Please don't give up. You CAN do this. I, myself, at my heavest, was 316 lbs, and that's not EVEN including when I was pregnant. We won't ever go there!

I did Weight Watchers and lost about 20 lbs and then stalled. It was too easy to eat a bunch of junk and still keep in my points range. The thing I've learned from doing this plan is you HAVE to taylor it to you. For example, no onions on the plan, but I LOVE onions and include them on my salad and when I grill veggies. Your family should be able to eat closely to this plan- it's very healthy. For example, last night I grilled some Lemon Rosemary chicken on the grill and some veggies like asparagus, onions, and squash. Mixed up some herbs and spices and it was delicious. Had to make some instant mashed potaoes for my 5 year old, but that didn't take but a minute. Get a george forman grill or an outside grill( I have both). I grill ALL the time. Look for "no sodium" canned green beans and spice them up. Basically, my meals look like this.
2 eggs, 1 toast for breakfast. I sometimes add sugar-free jam to the toast- just a smidgeon for extra flavor with a HNS
Lunch- grilled chicken or steak salad with fruit and HSN
Snack- 1 oz. of cheese ( keep it at work in refrigerator so I don't run out)
Dinner- grilled fish or chicken or hamburger. I put the hamburger open faced on a piece of toast. I cheat and add a "smidgen" of low fat mayo. Just a small smear to give it flavor. Salad, or veggies.
I ALWAYS have a creamy at night. Usually a Hot Chocolate. It's my relaxation thing for me. Helps me wind down. Gives me something to look forward to.
Main thing is, don't beat yourself up. Doing it 90 or 95 percent is better than the old eating ways we had in order to get ourselves here. Make a list for yourself as to why you want to lose and keep it with you to remind yourself why you are doing this. Plus, you will be teaching your children better eating habits that they can take with them. My 5 year old always chooses a sweet potatoe over frys when we eat out at Longhorn, and the fruit cup with his chicken at Chic Fil A. I'm very proud of that, but it's something I started when he was young, and it's his choice, but I hope I leading him in the right direction and he won't have to go through what I went through growing up heavy. I also would bet that if you start cooking healthier for your family, they will start eating it, or take the stance that you are cooking healthy and they can eat it, or they can cook for themselves!!Take it day by day, meal by meal. You CAN do this. It really isn't that hard. Spend some time in the spice isle and get lots of spice and herbs. They can make a HUGE difference. We are all here for you!!
