yet we have never been allowed to spend christmas day or boxing day together....
my parents have said its just for immediate family....
and not allowed entry to any one else other than immediate family....
this has been so upsetting the last few years....
i mentioned it to them last nite....
n this year they have said he is allowed to stay if he wants too....
:O its going to make my christmas....
im so happy and excited....
....just had to share my happiness....

have u thought of that maybe? cuz its been 5.5 yrs.
It makes more sense to talk about it & come to a mutual decision (& get to know each other's thoughts & expectations for marriage in the meantime) rather than leaving it all up to one person.
i really laughed out loud at that. Sounds like something my parents would do