First of all, I am not anywhere near where I need to be for optimal health. However, for different reasons at different times, I have decided to go on a maintenance form of the food plan I was/am on. I am currently doing that now.
I am on an extended stay and living with my elderly father while my Mom is recovering from cancer surgery, multiple strokes and heart attacks, pneumonia and a host of other ailments. Mom is currently in a nursing home about 25 miles away. Compound this stress with the fact that there are some legal and financial issues involved and you can see that there is a lot of inherent stress in this. However, stress affects me by not wanting to eat.
What I do when I make a conscious decision to "maintain" (which I prefer to think of as treading water-meaning I am not going forward and I am not going back) is that I have a couple of check points that I implement:
1) I weigh myself once a week to see if I need to be more or less careful in what I am eating, which usually means eating less but sometimes it means something different, like less of restaurant foods which have a lot more salt in them and the portions are bigger.
2) I "maintain" whatever activity I was doing prior to deciding to "maintain" my food plan.
3) I make sure that I am working a good program for my 12 Step regarding my compulsive overeating.
4) I take care of myself spiritually and emotionally too. I attend weekly Mass, I read my Bible, I talk with my DH every night and I catch up on seeing old friends.
Boundaries, setting limitations, not using food for non-food emotions and taking care of myself help keep me where I need to be until I can pick up where I left off.
That works for me!
