I know my son see's MORBIDLY obese women, but does NOT make a comment! He actually feels bad for them. Told me I should do up south beach flyers, and I commented, that would be so hurtful! But you know, he does strick up friendships with people of all race, gender, sexuality, and weight! One of his best friends that just moved away, Rachel, must of weighed around oh, 300 easy! He's been known to hit his friends for making fun of big people.
Though he wishes he could talk with them that it's unhealthy, he'd NEVER make fun of them for trying to get fit!
I too am glad you stood your ground, your a better person than I am!