I have found a few things. First, the zone diet is the one that recommends 30% calories from protein, 30% fat, 40% carbs. I found that if I eat like 50% cal from carbs, I lose much slower but it could just be a coincidence because I have been on it for only a month or a little over.
I joined the free
www.fitday.com thing to figure it out for me so it's less work (the proportions of protein, carb, fat etc). It estimated though that I burn over 2200 calories/day if i put that i actually move around so I set myself for "bed-bound" which I am not...actually I'm quite active. This way, I NEVER go over my calories because it says I can only have 1800 in a day and I try to stay around 1100-1200. If I am off by 200, I still lose. I have been losing about 1.5 lbs/week. I like fitday.com as a tool.