My name is Lisa and I'm finally ready to get some help.
I'm 21 years old 5'1 and 163 pounds. I've gained 50 pounds in 3 years. Its messed me up emotionally. I don't like to go out anymore because I'm afraid to see people who haven't seen me in a long time.. and I can't find any clothes or bathing suits that fit right.

My boyfriend just proposed, and we set the date for May 2nd. My goal is to lose 40lbs before then so I can feel great in my dress and just finally stop feeling sorry for myself.

WOW!
Congratulations! I am sure you will succeed!
Try not to worry what others think, if they love you they will support you, just like your soon to be husband!
Good luck and welcome!
Bonjul

PS love your pic!

Hey I am from upstate NY too. You can do it! Congrats on the proposal, that would motivate me to look good in my dress. Just take it one day at a time and you will lose that 40 lbs by your wedding!!

Lisa! Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! You can certainly lose 40 lbs. by next May and you've come to the right place to find the encouragement and motivation to do it! We look forward to getting to know you!