I'm glad I didn't have to be anywhere at a certain time."Gma" -- Thank you for the "bee" explanation! You did good!
The "ex" was to clean the cabin after her kid and grandkids left on Monday. I have no doubt that she spent most of her time at the cabin before the 4th also. Her own mother lives in a mobile home park at the other end of the town. When they used to live in Iowa she would take her kids and spend the summers at the cabin -- just moved in like she owned the place then too. We own 1/3 so pay 1/3 of the utilities, upkeep, and taxes. MIL owns 2/3 getting 1/3 from a sister who lived in Oregon and had to go to a nursing home. We bought our 1/3 from MIL's sister who lived in CA and hated the lake. Her daughter and family used to come every summer and the daughter took over paying her mother's share of the expenses until her husband died and then she didn't think she could afford it so quit paying which left MIL paying 100% for awhile. You will have Thanksgiving and Christmas to look forward to; that will be exciting and fun for you. 
Susan -- I knew you would enjoy the quilt guild and lunch with your friends. Let us know what the Beck Diet Solution has to say. If we didn't have to eat life could be so simple!
I don't think asking the relatives to help pay for use of the cabin is out of line. When my in-laws spent the summers there it was a little different as that was their summer home and they could entertain or invite anyone they chose to. Since MIL is not there all the time, and we own part of it, it's a different story.I hear the dryer buzzing so it's on to the next load of laundry. At least I won't have much on Monday, I hope. Have a nice evening and a super weekend!
Jean --
from Iowa!

In a few minutes we're going to go to Dunkin Donuts and buy coffee, ONE donut a piece, and then we're going to sit on a bench at the marina and enjoy the treat and watch boats and ducks. Later this morning, the girls w/kids are coming over. Later today we're going to a bbq. I plan on staying on program.
The cold front came through here in time for the weekend and I was so glad. I don't do hot and humid outside very well.
Hope you found your pieces by now.
Good luck with your job hunt.
I hope Susan doesn't find August until at least October when it seems more like fall and school should be starting. You are never too old to finish your degree if you wanted to!
What were you studying? There was just a story about a 93 year old lady who earned her high school diploma this spring. She had to drop out of school after the 8th grade to help care for her sick mother and run the household. Her mother died and then she was responsible for raising her borthers and sisters so never did go back to school. That was something she had always wanted to do and finally did it. I forget how many great, great-grandchildren were at her party, but the entire family attended. I thought that was such a neat story. I hope Jack's back is better today. I took a cake decorating class when I was pregnant with Beth. They had us bring an empty ice cream bucket to practice on. I did pretty good on the bucket, but my real cake was pathetic looking. I never did get the hang of decrumbing and getting a smooth base layer of frosting on the cake. My roses were pretty darned good if I do say so myself! 
Then comes one for Will, and then 4 more for the grandkids. I have a feeling that project will be waiting for when I retire. 
I'm with Jack in the potato fan club!