Hey John89!
Definitely stay closer to 1500 cals for now. Part of the problem may be that you have cut too much, and that means you'll be hungry. Of course, some hunger is normal, but if it is too much, it can lead to eating the wrong foods. Be sure you're getting enough lean protein and don't fill up on carbs.
Yep, the tempting foods have to go--if you can toss them, good. If they belong to others, then you may have to try some other strategy... like, putting them in a special "out of bounds for you" cupboard.
Good luck!
Jay