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I don't want to over do it since I have been so unproductive(sounds better than lazy) for so long.
Obviously I don't know your health or fitness level, so this is a very general comment, but I know that a LOT of women take this attitude towards working out ... and it's not always, well ... right.
Unless you're dealing with specific health issues, in general you can push your body pretty hard (and should) when working out. Most women have a fear of working out hard (not all ... I think a lot of the women here would be exceptions to the rules) or of "bulking up" when they workout.
I would challenge you to push yourself more with your exercise. Check out the exercise and weight lifting forums here and see what advice you can get. For me, my weight loss didn't really kick into high gear until I began to really challenge myself in my workouts ... really push and go further than I thought I was capable of. Suddenly my metabolism shot thru the roof and I started to feel GREAT - and the pounds dropped off.
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