What everyone else has said ... and welcome!
I don't think you'll find anyone here who will give you advice on what to eat to lose 100 lbs in a few months or who will say it's ok to rely on shakes and veggies only for your weight loss. What you will find are people who are willing to give you honest advice and support and help you find a path that works for you!
You can see by my ticker that I want to ultimately lose 100+ lbs and I'm about 2/3 of the way there. It has taken me about a year to lose the 70lbs I've lost already ... yes I could have done it faster and remained healthy, but I also would have felt deprived and lost my motivation. The way I'm eating and exercising now is a lifestyle change. I don't deprive myself, but I don't overindulge either (except every once in a rare while).
What have I done to change and lose weight?
1 - Exercise. The very first single most important life change I made was exercising every single day. I do something. I go to the gym 3-4x a week whenever possible. If I can't go to the gym, I walk around my neighborhood, or climb stairs, or do situps while watching tv, or something. Right now I'm working on the New Rules of Lifting for Women program which is awesome.
2 - Measure and track every single bite that goes in my mouth. If I lick the jam off the knife when I make a sandwich, I track it. I was amazed at how much food I was eating just in a bite here and a bite there. I was also amazed at how I had no idea what a real portion size was. When I saw what a serving of pasta was (1 cup) vs. what I was eating in a meal 4-5 cups ... wow. That was a huge eye opener!
3 - Cut back on eating processed foods. I cut out as much of the pre-packaged food as I could - even if it's "good for me" or "diet" related. I try to eat "whole" foods rather than something someone else prepared and froze or canned in a factory.
I found this site after I'd lost a good 60 lbs ... and the women here have helped keep me on track since then. I wish I'd found the site earlier - cause wow, there's a great group of women and tons of info here! So you're already ahead of the game in that respect!
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