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Originally Posted by FluffyK
Can ya tell I'm just down on myself? This is not a good place to be, because then I want to eat to make myself feel better.
BEAUTIFUL
Krystal, this is for you --->

Cut out that kind of thinking right now, missy!!! You are GORGEOUS and I bet the only thoughts DH is having about you are that he wishes you could feel as good as he does.

I think what you said above is
totally true and we need to avoid that thinking in order to stay on track. Truth is, sometimes I let myself think that way
because it allows me to eat more!

Let's not sabotage ourselves that way, okay?
We have to learn to love our bodies as they are, IMHO, if we want to get to a healthier weight. We
can't wait to be skinny to love ourselves.

My food and mood group last night was all about body image and one of the things we talked about a lot was that if we focus on what our body
does (i.e. how it moves), we'll have a much better opinion of it than if we just focus on how it
looks. Does that make sense? I get the best impression of that when I do yoga. I become so in tune with how my body functions and amazed at the things I can do with it. I also become so thankful for the blessing of having a body that works. I'm sure you're feeling like that right now,
Nessa, right?

Anyways, step away from the (insert food porn here),
Krystal, and go for a workout with DH. You CAN do this!
Nessa, I'm SO thrilled for you that your boot is off!!!

That's great! You are doing fantastic with your weight as well and your clean eating!
Kim, I'm SO glad DH is taking time to recover and that you're both feeling more positive. That is SO healing, IMHO.

You're in my prayers and I know things will go well. BTW, my DH irons his own shirts because I am a terrible ironer!

Your DH is one lucky guy!

Congrats,
Pacer, on those gorgeous calves! [insert wolf whistle here]

I need to go get me some yoga!

You made me think of a card I gave my best friend after a breakup. On the front it said, "Everything we needed to know we learned in kindergarten..." and inside it said, "Boys are stupid."

BTW, you're entirely right about them losing much faster than we do. Frustrating, but true.
I hear you,
TK, it's really hard to know how to help your child in a situation like that! I do think that your own intuition is very important. Lots of people have good advice, but you and your DH know your son best.

However, I think therapy is a good idea for everyone and can't hurt your son. Everyone needs a place to talk about what they're going through with someone who is nonjudgemental and doesn't have any personal involvement with them. Best of all, many therapists have experience dealing with kids who have been in situations like your son's and can give you expert advice on whether they think there may be future problems. I'd ask around with your friends who are parents and at the school for a recommendation of a good children's therapist.
