Hi, I to have tendency to get red-faced too, its so uncomfortable. My mother taught me not to wash your face with hot water, warm is good, cool is better and always rinse with cool or cold as you can... Warm/hot water opens your pores, cold/cool water closes your pores. I do this in the shower too... It's uncomfortable to rinse in cool water at first, but I got used to it, feels really good in the summer. I also do this with my hair, wash in warm, rinse in cool.. (hair has pores too)
I use the old fashioned Oil of Olay... i have for years. I run a humidifyer all winter to at least 50%, dry air will make your skin feel hot.. imho I think there are too many products out there to wash with... Yikes I haven't used soap on my face since I was 12...I use the OOO and cool water to wash.. Good Luck... btw, sometimes the redness is a condition called rosasea a dermatologic condition needing MD eval. Good Luck... OH if you really want to see a red face, give me a glass of wine...

I'm allergic to the sulyfates...