Hi,
USCarchie!
I've been bopping myself on the head since Thursday because I totally meant to include information on icing/frostings! They are tricky because a lot of them use powdered sugar and while we could try to make powdered Splenda just as you described, the cornstarch could be a problem, just like you noted. (as a side note, I haven't tried it yet, but did purchase some powdered erythritol recently. I got it from
www.netrition.com. It's a great sweetener--it's NOT a sugar alcohol, so there aren't digestive side effects. Even Stonyfield Farms is using it in their Light organic yogurts!)
I've found the most effective icing is cream cheese, milk, and sweetener (Splenda works fine). I've found tons of recipes and haven't even had a chance to try them all. Just search for "sugar free icing" or frosting and you'll find 'em. Here's one I like:
Sugar Free Cream Cheese Icing
I do think we can all learn a lot of different things that might help us become better bakers with SBD. But I don't think you
have to learn those things to make them good! So please don't be intimidated by all the ingredients I mentioned. I started out with just Splenda and WW flour. Over time, I learned more about other things. I make cookies for Christmas gifts every year (a tradition I inherited from my mom) and so I've had tons of practice with cookies! What I've come to do is pick recipes I know will be easier to modify and work well with SBD-safe ingredients. I avoid things made with tons of powdered sugar. I avoid things like shortbread that don't have much flavor from anything but the flour and sugar (and rely on a lot of unhealthy fats). I look for recipes that involve other grains, like oatmeal, or substitutes for flour, like ground nuts. I also use real semi-sweet or dark chocolate and save those (when it comes to me) for the one day a week when I have real chocolate.
Here's a great example--it uses real chocolate, so they feel decadent. It uses ground nuts in place of part of the flour, so you don't notice any toughness from WW flour. I save these for that one day a week--and I actually only make them at Christmas so I don't get bored with them.
Chocolate Walnut Truffles are in the Desserts-Phase 2 section of the Recipe forum.
Ruth, as for the cookies thing--I do see your point, and I've heard it expressed by others here at 3FC. However, I think if you think that cookies caused the problem, saving them to eat only when you get to goal isn't a great idea, at least not for me.

Not only does saving them make my mind think that cookies are a special treat (aka "being at goal isn't a good enough "treat" -- I need cookies to really feel good about it")
and that I can't be trusted with them unless I'm "skinny," but it also sets up the idea that when I get to goal, I'll suddenly be able to eat anything Iwant without gaining weight.

I've had that image many times--I'd cut stuff out while dieting and only let myself have it when I got to goal. Then I'd gain
all the weight back, plus some, partly because I felt so deprived and partly because I just wanted to feel normal and eat like I thought everyone else was eating.

I find that if I don't let myself have something at all, I obsess over it and feel deeply upset about it. But if I tell myself that I can have it, but it just has to fit within the guidelines of SBD, I'm fine.
Of course, these are
my issues--and just like I feel comfortable incorporating baked goods into my everyday eating, there's no reason why you should feel uncomfortable about saving them for goal.

It just wouldn't work for me.
My personal goals are: to stop thinking about some foods as bad and others as good, to see food as a fuel rather than as a treat or punishment, and to figure out a way of eating that I can sustain for the rest of my life. I don't want to change my eating at all when I get to goal (unless I find that I have to do so in order to maintain). I know that SBD does consider Phase 3 a different kind of eating, but I think if I try to incorporate those kind of foods into my diet after I get to goal, I'm going to find myself gaining again.

Making things like cookies or cake or whatever a part of regular life (though I don't eat them daily!) makes me see them as "regular" instead of "good" or "bad" and keeps me from thinking of them as a special treat reserved for special days. Then, when the "special days" come, I can focus more on what the day is about and less on "what amazing thing will I get to eat today???" Does that make any sense? That's my reason for "why cookies at all?"

Anyways, off the soapbox already, Laurie!
