My DH's sister said it best (and she's significantly overweight as is all of his family).
"I eat when I'm happy or sad, angry or stressed or bored. That's what eating's for, to help you through all the bad times and to celebrate the good ones".
We all reach for the "bad"

food when we're in an emotional state at one time or another (or in my own case most of the time

). On the "Biggest Loser" last week one of the trainers had her mom, a psychotherapist, talk about their eating/emotional issues with the black team members.
Not all of us have the money or time to go through therapy. We have to learn to do something else, like post here or go for a walk, or take the kids to have their hair cut

. It takes a lot of time to change old habits.
Does anyone know of a good article/book/dvd that addresses "emotional" eating?
Dagmar