I always feel like im doing good on a diet and then i have man trouble and it all goes downhill from there. this last couple days have been horrible. ive still been eating pretty good but i havent been drinking alot if any water at all instead i went back to soda pop. and forget the exercise thing. all ive wanted to do when i get home is curl up in a ball. although i havent let myself break down and cry. but just 10 min ago i found a way to channel it all. i looked through my itunes library and decided to make a cd that reminded me of this guy. i will use this as my workout/ cleaning music and then when i do start losing weight he can realize what he missed out on. If people dont like me when im fat im not gonna give them the chance when im skinny. Thats just my philosophy on life. sorry about the ranting ladies. have a good day!!!!!!!!!!!

So sorry you are going through that. (((hugs)))

ur not the only girl whos done that i have made cds, but now i have my ipod lol. its kinda empowering to listen to that and then think of him and just go 4 it. i think when im exercising im going get to my goal weight n he will want but then i realize if doesnt want me for who i am, when im fat he wont want me if i was 135lbs. what kinda guy would he be if he did decide to want u after u get to ur goal? what if u get there n he wants a cpl of yrs later u put on extra is he going to leave u? you dont need that type of guy. there will be a guy out there thats going to love u if ur 297 or 137 and then he will be the keeper. trust me if he loves he will be ur biggest cheerlearder if not u kick him to the curb lol

Honey, I know just how you feel. I'm hurting bad from my breakup, which was exactly 1 month ago (sick that I am counting the weeks). I try to keep it together but sometimes it just hits me all at once and knocks the wind out of me... it's really over. He's no longer my baby.

My advice for you is this: don't let this guy be the motivation for your weight loss so much as the motivation to love YOURSELF enough to lose weight. No man is an island and we're all effected by those around us but from my experience, losing weight to spite/attract/impress another person is not nearly as fulfilling as losing weight because you love yourself.

Rant away...that is what you are here for.

I agree that you have to do this for yourself, but if a man acting like a jerk helps in that motivation then take it and channel all that into something positive.

Good luck!

We all have our own frustrations at times. That's why we are here isn't it? So we know we're not alone.
You show him, babe! Let him drool!! LOL