I Made Goal!! (long)

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  • Even though it's not an official weigh-in day, I saw 165 on my scale today, so I'm calling it official! Here's the story of my journey, if you feel like reading a lot of my rambling!

    I was a skinny kid until puberty. I was short too! Boy, did things change. Throughout high school I was a little chunky but never terribly overweight (though I felt like I was) and I was always SERIOUSLY unathletic (you know, last picked for teams in gym class and all that). In college, I put on some more weight except for one lovely summer when I took off 40 pounds and got down to 140. I married my husband right out of college and then I proceeded to gain more and more weight every year until I weighed 275 (I'm assuming that was my highest weight, but for years I didn't even know).

    My husband is gorgeous. I’m not just saying that – seriously, it’s a fact. He’s one of those people whose looks draw attention, and he’s amazingly fit. He’s always been a runner, and he’s never had an ounce of fat on him. For years, people have wondered why he’s with me. I know this, because some people have even expressed that opinion directly to me! Yes, unbelievably rude, I know. Anyway…he has NEVER made me feel bad about the way I looked, but he didn’t have to. I was always worried that he was ashamed to be married to an obese woman when he’s so fit and healthy. I’ll never know how much shame he might have felt, because he would never say something like that to me.

    Like most of us, I’d tried every diet in the book, but I’d never REALLY tried. Yes, I had an 8-month stint with Weight Watchers back in 2001 when I lost 50 pounds, but I gained all that back plus a few more. I knew that the WW plan worked for me, but I had no plan for maintenance, and I just couldn't get back on track. When my mother received a diagnosis of diabetes last summer, however, I realized: this is it. I’m 34 (now I’m 35) and I’m far heavier than she has EVER been. I’m on the path to diabetes and God knows what other kinds of problems. I have to stop this NOW.

    So I did it. Yes, that sounds too simple. But it is. You just DO it. What is it that Yoda says? “Do or not do – there is no try.” Something like that. On July 18, 2006, I started counting my WW points again (without going to meetings). I tracked every pound I lost in a spreadsheet and a graph. I was a faithful poster on 3FC from the beginning (and thank God I found this site). In the process, I discovered that I love running. That’s been the biggest surprise of all.

    The most awkward, unathletic kid in the world has become an athlete and a coach. The saddest, most ashamed wife has become a woman who’s proud to stand next to her husband. I want more than anything to let people know that they can do this too. People always say “if I can do it, anyone can,” but it really couldn’t be more true in this case. I was unhealthy for so long, and now I’m strong and happy and alive. Thirty-five is FAR better than twenty-five was, I can tell you that for sure.

    I can’t thank the people at 3FC enough for the support I’ve received here. It’s unbelievable how wonderful this place is! When I saw 165 on the scale this morning, the first thing I thought was that I can’t wait to let my 3FC friends know.

    My next goal is 155. I have all sorts of fitness goals as well, mostly involving becoming a faster runner. I know I’ll have the support of you fantastic folks here as I keep striving toward my goals, and I want to be able to support all of you as well.

    This weekend, I’m opening a bottle of champagne to celebrate!
  • Lisa, I have tears in my eyes. We are all so unbelievably proud of you!

    And I have to reiterate something so important that Lisa said: if she can do it, anyone can do it. Just the same as if *I* managed to do it, any of you can do it. Lisa and I (and all the countless other fab maintainers at 3FC) are no different than any one else here. Make a commitment, put one foot in front of th other, and soon you'll be posting your story in the Goal! forum too.
  • Lisa, you are amazing and a true inspiration to not only me, but this whole forum. Congratulations on all your hard work and dedication. I hope one day to be posting in this forum as well and I know you'll be there cheering me on!

    *hugs*
    Cat
  • Congratulations. It is really inspiring to read about "ordinary" people put their foot down and achieve their goals.
  • Lisa, I too have tears in my eyes. You are incredible!! It is because of you (and all the others on here who share their lives) that people like me can do this!! I know I will make it to my goal for the first time in my life ~ and I also know that a lot of it is because we see others here just DO IT!!

    Congratulations Coach!!!
  • Oh Lisa. I am so happy for you, I could cry. What an inspiring story. We have so many similiarities it amazes me. Same thing with high school - just a bit chunky and gaining majority of the weight after I got married and never REALLY trying and then it suddenly became - simple.

    Anyway, I am just so very proud of you. You have done an OUTSTANDING job and you inspire so, so, so many around here and I'm sure you do at home as well. I always think how lucky those kids are to have you for a coach.

    It's been a true pleasure going along this journey with you at the same time. I now look forward to maintaining with you as well. Good luck in reaching all your future goals, not that you need any of my luck. You do such a great job all by your lonesome.

    As a side note, as I was reading your story, one line really hit me and then I saw Meg's post - it's the same line Meg highlighted - if I can do it, anyone can. I'd like to second that or should I say third it. Obviously it's how a lot of us maintainers feel. I truly can't imagine anyone on the planet being a worse eater then I was. And *I*, like Lisa and Meg, "did" it. If we did it - then really - so CAN anyone. Losing a lot of weight IS doable - and whoever's reading this - can as well. You've just got to make that decision and that commitment to do so.

    Congratulations Lisa. You've most certainly "done it".
  • Congratulations to you! Your story is one of the reasons I chose to stick around here. This site is full of possibilities and inspiration! Thanks for sharing your story... and enjoy your champagne!!
  • That is AMAZING, Lisa! I don't have a whole lot to add, really, but I wanted to let you know that your story gives hope to me, and so many others as well.
  • Lisa! It must be an amazing feeling! Your story gives me a lot of hope
  • Lisa, I have this big grin on my face because you sound so happy!! I am also grinning because you have given me so much hope for myself. Thank you!
  • Hey,Girl! Remember when you first came to this site and read the Goal stories of some of the incredible "losers" here and yearned to be like them? You're one of them now!! Your journey has inspired so many of us and will continue to inspire those who come to this site in the future.
  • Lisa - wow! I have tears in my eyes too. Its so true.

    And I'll add yet another voice to the chorus of - If Meg and Robin and Lisa and I and SO MANY OTHERS can do it, you can too, IF YOU COMMIT AND YOU JUST DO IT.

    Congratulations - you must be over the moon.
  • What an amazing story !

    A toast to you !!! Congratulations !!!!!!!
  • Lisa, I don't just have tears in my eyes, I'm crying. Thank you for sharing your story and being who you are. You inspire me, and give me hope, as do the others who have lost large amounts of weight here at 3FC. I am one of the people who think I must be worse than everyone else when it comes to compulsive overeating and bad health habits. I'm clinging to the message that it's not impossible to change.


  • Congratulations! You are such an inspiration to me! I get a kick out of your connection to cross country cause I have a daughter on a team and several of us mothers are runners.

    You are an athlete. Congratulations on a healthy lifestyle.