What's wrong with pasta?
Just eat one serving and leave it at that.
If your family wants pasta, then let them have it. My guys are all the time wanting stuff I'm not going to eat. I don't worry about it, I make my own food that I CAN eat. And really, there's nothing I
can't eat. It's just I make sure I stay within my calorie allowance and if they're having something that doesn't fit for the day, I find something else. No biggie!
I learned long ago not to make my family suffer because of my new way of eating. I can't insist that they not have the foods they love just because I'm not going to eat them.