Just to put my two cents in

- I have gotten into huge trouble with breakfast bars, including the Kashi. I bought a case of them from Amazon. I thought I would be eating something good for me, but I started in on them and didn't stop until they were all gone. Yikes!
I think the problem is that I keep on thinking that they are good for me (maybe somewhat true) but, what they really are is a trigger food. Same with stuff like slim-fast. It tastes like chocolate milk to me and I can't leave it alone.
I have definitely designed my own diet. My aim is to eat food with few additives, lots of fresh fruit and veggies, low fat dairy and meat and whole grains. I watch my portions. This probably sounds pretty familiar to most of you.
One of the things I read is that I need to be able to adapt the things that I like to eat to a healthier life style. I have had some sucess with this. I now have one salad dressing I really like and a sort of invented recipe for spaghetti (WW), and sauce (ground turkey meat) that I really like - no sacrafice here. I do just fine with yogurt or low fat sour cream or buttermilk on my baked or mashed potatoes. I am currently trying to develop a blue cheese salad dressing. I don't require lots of blue cheese - just a little for flavoring, but I like a nice creamy base.
My plan for a reward is to get some high quality perfume or lotion, instead of rewarding myself with food. Only glitch in this plan is that I made a promise to myself that I must use up all of my current cosmetics before buying anything new. I may have to delay gratification for a while!!!