I agree; if I really don't like something, I don't eat it. For example, I don't like peas. Sure they're good for me, but there are so many other veggies I can eat, why bother to eat peas. I only get 1300 calories per day; I'm not going to waste them eating foods I don't like. There are tons of great, filling breakfast options, from other types of hot cereals, to cold cereals, to yogurt and cottage cheese, to eggs and lean meats; why eat oatmeal if you don't like it?
In terms of making oatmeal palatable; are you cooking it with salt? 1/8 tsp salt (for a single serving) makes a huge difference. I like my oatmeal with 2 packets of French Vanilla splenda, some pumpkin pie spice, and 1/4 cup of soy milk or non-fat yogurt on top. I like it even better with chocolate chips stirred into it

, but that's pretty much not on the menu these days

. But that does give me an idea...maybe I could add a tbsp of cocoa powder and some splenda and it would be similar to the chocolate chip oatmeal. I'll have to try it.
You might also try steel cut oatmeal. It's a pain to cook (so do a big batch and freeze what you won't eat in a week, don't try to cook a single serving at a time), but it does have a distinctly different flavor and texture than quick or instant oatmeal. You can get pre-cooked, frozen steel cut oatmeal from Trader Joe's.
Here is a recipe for oatmeal pancakes:
Oatmeal Pancakes
1/2 cup eggbeaters
1/4 cup milk
1 tsp baking powder
1 tbsp flour
2 packets instant oatmeal (flavored, if you want)
1 tsp cinnamon
1 banana, mashed (you could sub your fruit of choice...1/4 cup applesauce, pumpkin purree, mashed canned peaches, crushed pineapple)
1 tsp vanilla
Mix everything together and cook the way you would any other pancakes. Serve them with the topping of your choice (fruit, syrup, whatever you like on pancakes). The recipe makes 6 good-sized pancakes, each at just under 100 calories. If you eat three pancakes, you are getting a full serving of oatmeal.