what becomes of a broken heart!!!

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  • thats right everyone i'm single again! for those of you who remember the last time i'm taking this one slightly better i've managed to stay off the alcohol, although i've barely eaten much since which isn't good.


  • It will get better in the meantime take care of yourself.
  • I'm sorry, Si.
  • Sorry to hear it.
  • Well I guess I can't really talk cause I kinda stopped dating for about a year now because of bad relationships.. but I would say you are doing well by talking about it. Try to focus on yourself. Working on your health.. or a hobby.. or, heck, even watching an Amercian show on your Japanese TV. ...It might help. We're here for ya!
  • Hang in there! Hopefully you can stay positive and come back here often to read and post. We're here for you!!!
  • Hang in there, I have been divorced for 5 years, and Happy with myself, give it time....you will heal
  • Sorry that your relationship ended, but glad to hear you aren't trying to heal by using alcohol. I'm with Kae, I quit dating last year due to lack of positive relationships and began to focus on being happy with me. Please do take care of yourself by eating right, staying busy and posting here! That way you can add multi-national friends to your list!
  • I'm sorry to hear of your breakup Si.
  • Sorry to hear you are single again. But glad to hear the humor and resolve are still there.
    I can relate, been both places. I now know that being in a bad relationship is worse than being single anyday.
    good luck
  • Awww, I'm sorry to hear that.

    Hang in there and good job on staying away from the alcohol!
  • Good on you, to see a past the grief this time! Please keep on looking after yourself - who wants Phlegmish beer, anyway?

    Never give up on the future! My friend (of longer than 30 yrs) had seen her share of bad relationships, and about seven years ago decided just to be happy within herself. Five years ago, at age 50+, she met her match - he was 50+, also decided to be happy with life just as it came. They've been blissfully married ever since (and part of that bliss comes from their own past experiences).

    You have so much going for you, not least your sense of humour! Just TAKE CARE of yourself, someone down the road will REALLY appreciate it!
  • I'm so sorry, Sai.

    We're cheering for you!! see?? Hang in there buddy.
  • I know this is lame but when ever something ends, something else has to begin. It'll be fine. And in the long run you'll probably find someone even better. But make sure you stay healthy.
  • I'm sorry you're going through a rough time, but I'm sending good thoughts your way. We're here for ya!