Here's a post from L&S that Pam B. wrote this morning. I found it so inspirational and thought you all would enjoy reading it as well!
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Has this happened to any of you? You start out with great intentions, only to find yourself cheating on the diet and then saying, "what the heck, I might as well eat anything I want and start tomorrow or next week.."
Well guess what? I used to do that all the time. I've tried Weight Watchers, Formu-3, Fortunate Life, Jenny Craig, Atkins, Somercise, Carbohydrate Addict, Cambridge, Shaklee, Slimfast, Dexatrim... you name it, I've tried it.
When I started Body for Life I was worried that I was going to do the same thing... start up gung ho and fail. I was talking to a good friend yesterday and realized that I hadn't shared the full story of my transformation. I bought the book on January 16, 2000 and had every intention of starting on January 17th. I started out that morning eating right, then while at work I ate a piece of chocolate, then one led to another and another and another until finally I said, "What the heck" and blew the whole day. This was not a good way to start another program. Then I started again the next day... and didn't look back.
The difference came when I realized that I am doing BFL for me... nobody else but me. I had to drag myself out of the muck I was wallowing for so long. Every moment of every day I had to remind myself why I was doing this. Every moment of every day I asked myself, "Who do you want to be today, Pam?" Do I want to be lazy, fat, uninspired, depressed or do I want to be energetic, athletic, healthy, full of life? I would say to myself, "Yes, I want to be the latter, but I am not" Then I would say, "Well Pam, you are going to have to pretend that you are for a while.... fake it until you make it!" I pretended and faked it until lo and behold, I AM that energetic, athletic, healthy, confident person I have always wanted to be!!!
Did I mess up? Sure. Did I remind myself why I was doing this and who I wanted to be? Every single time I messed up or every single time I was challenged (which was sometimes multiple times per day) I would remind myself and ask myself that question. I would pretend that I was that healthy, athletic, confident person.
After doing that day after day after day, I started to believe that I WAS that healthy, athletic, confident person. I may not have looked like it on the outside because I was still covered in bodyfat, but I had already changed on the inside.
Change comes from the inside out. Even if you don't feel changed on the inside yet, fake it until you make it. Pretend you are that person you want to be, the change will then take place on the inside, and then it will happen on the outside. Never, ever, ever give up!! You are too important to do that!! Everyone of us is special! You should value yourself enough to not cheat yourself out of the life you deserve.
Promise me one thing... do something special for YOU today. Whether that be exercising, eating right, taking a special bubble bath, meditating, reading a special magazine or book with no distractions, I don't care... just do something special for YOU!!!
"It's never too late to be the person you might have been." G. Elliot
BTW, Pam B is going to be featured in the next issue of "Energy for Women". I'm really looking forward to buying that issue!